Some people chuckled at the grabby player “getting caught ” Others were horrified and sounded the “sexual assault” alarm.įor me it was just straight athletes going gay. Of course being gay is a lot more than grabbing another guy’s nether regions. I’ve been out for 20-plus years and with my husband for exactly 62.963% of that time. Of course it’s more than that.īut what gets so often lost is that the opposite is also true: Grabbing another guy’s nether regions is about a lot more than being “gay” (so please, forgive the shorthand). What might be deemed “gay” in West Hollywood or the Castro is just your average afternoon post-practice ritual for so many straight guys completely comfortable with their own bodies and the bodies of their teammates and opponents. Men of all sexual orientations look at each other’s penises in the shower. They measure themselves against other men. They roughhouse naked in the locker room. They talk explicitly about what they do sexually, what they like. They paint graphic pictures for their teammates of them having sex (with a woman, of course always with a woman).ĭon’t believe me? Just ask Anthony Davis. None of this makes any of the participants “gay.” Truly. Long before there ever was “gay,” this is what men did. In ancient Greece and Rome, homosexual conduct was just your run-of-the-mill Tuesday visit to the bath house or trist with acquaintances. Today, men in particular are forced to “choose” between being gay and being straight (despite what I personally believe to be the preponderance of bisexuality among humans). Sports are the ultimate test case for all of that. With mostly fit, athletic bodies, male athletes come together naked in the locker room, at the very least taking careful notice of the naked bodies next to them.
This doesn’t make the athletes “gay” per se, it means they are human. In Wilkins’ case, that spilled out onto the field in front of a national television audience, a moment of blunt honesty. Wilkins’ teammate, Ben Boulware, made my point before I did. “I know there's going to be that one person: 'Well, I played football and I never did that,’” Boulware said after Wilkins’ intimate incident. The people who are freaking out about that have never played the game, or were just losers who didn't have any friends when they played the game.” “You either sucked at football, you had no friends in the locker room, or you were the person that went in the bathroom stall to go change because you were scared to shower with the team. Being alone with him was even more exciting, he would fuck me anywhere and inviting sometimes his friend from work and i would just please him. That’s a Clemson football player saying if you don’t check out your teammates and grab dicks in the locker room, you’re not really a part of the team.Īll of this ultimately creates a tough dynamic for athletes who are actually gay.įor years, part of the assumption with all of this grabby-grabby horseplay has been that all the dudes in the locker room are straight. The main reason why i stayed with my dad when he divorced my mom, i was already his toy and well trained cum slut when that happened. If they’re all straight, then it’s just “boys being boys,” horsing around.
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